{"id":310,"date":"2021-05-19T22:15:27","date_gmt":"2021-05-19T19:15:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/?p=310"},"modified":"2021-05-19T22:15:27","modified_gmt":"2021-05-19T19:15:27","slug":"nera-nieko-pastoviau-uz-laikinuma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/?p=310","title":{"rendered":"N\u0117ra nieko pastoviau u\u017e laikinum\u0105"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>A\u0161 ne tiek pasitikiu savimi, kiek pasitikiu savo vaiku.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u0116RA NIEKO PASTOVIAU U\u017d LAIKINUM\u0104 arba kod\u0117l mes vis ka\u017eko laukiame, skubame gyventi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Augindama pirmagim\u012f a\u0161 vis laukiau. Laukiau, kada jis pirm\u0105kart s\u0105moningai nusi\u0161ypsos, kada prad\u0117s nulaikyti galvyt\u0119, kada prad\u0117s juoktis, vartytis, s\u0117d\u0117ti, ropoti, vaik\u0161\u010dioti, kalb\u0117ti ir t.t. A\u0161 vis laukiau, nes atrod\u0117, kad su nauju etapu bus lengviau (o buvo visaip), kad bus ka\u017ekas kitaip. U\u017edavin\u0117jau sau galyb\u0119 klausim\u0173, nerasdama atsakym\u0173, juos susigalvodavau pati ir tai, tam tikra prasme, var\u0117 \u012f nevilt\u012f. Dabar t\u0105 etap\u0105 a\u0161 sau \u012fsivardinu kaip \u201epirmojo vaiko sindromas\u201c. Ir suprantu, kad buvo taip, kaip tur\u0117jo b\u016bti. Matyt, tai nei\u0161vengiama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Antragimis auga visi\u0161kai kitaip. A\u0161 ne tiek pasitikiu savimi, kiek pasitikiu savo vaiku. Suprantu, kad visi etapai yra laikini, kad viskas praeina. A\u0161 nieko nelaukiau ir nelaukiu, nes laikas lekia nepastebimai ir vienas raidos etapas veja kit\u0105, kartais net nesp\u0117ju susigaudyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir vis pagalvoju, kaip b\u016bt\u0173 auginant tre\u010di\u0105? \ud83e\udd14\ud83e\udd2d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien lygiai trys metai ir a\u0161tuoni m\u0117nesiai, kai a\u0161 esu dviej\u0173 vaik\u0173 mama. \u2665\ufe0f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kadangi ilgalaik\u012f \u017eindym\u0105 su antru vaiku i\u0161mokau priimti kaip nat\u016bral\u0173 proces\u0105 \u017eindyme, tai \u0161is berniukas nuotraukoje \u017eindomas pagal poreik\u012f iki kol pats nat\u016braliai nusijunkys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ar i\u0161gyvenote\/i\u0161gyvenate \u201epirmojo vaiko sindrom\u0105\u201c? Pasidalinkite. Lauksiu pabendrauti su Jumis komentaruose. \ud83d\ude07<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img src=\"blob:https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/0f6dd035-f831-437c-a836-fa775dff8fec\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-twentytwentyone-image-frame\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"750\" height=\"920\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/foto1234.jpg?resize=750%2C920&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-312\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/foto1234.jpg?resize=835%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 835w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/foto1234.jpg?resize=245%2C300&amp;ssl=1 245w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/foto1234.jpg?resize=768%2C942&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/foto1234.jpg?w=848&amp;ssl=1 848w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A\u0161 ne tiek pasitikiu savimi, kiek pasitikiu savo vaiku. N\u0116RA NIEKO PASTOVIAU U\u017d LAIKINUM\u0104 arba kod\u0117l mes vis ka\u017eko laukiame, skubame gyventi. Augindama pirmagim\u012f a\u0161 vis laukiau. Laukiau, kada jis pirm\u0105kart s\u0105moningai nusi\u0161ypsos, kada prad\u0117s nulaikyti galvyt\u0119, kada prad\u0117s juoktis, vartytis, s\u0117d\u0117ti, ropoti, vaik\u0161\u010dioti, kalb\u0117ti ir t.t. A\u0161 vis laukiau, nes atrod\u0117, kad su nauju&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/?p=310\">T\u0119skite <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">N\u0117ra nieko pastoviau u\u017e laikinum\u0105<\/span> skaitym\u0105<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","spay_email":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[35,36,37],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=310"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":313,"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310\/revisions\/313"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mama-mamoms.lt\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}